So I'm off to my annual trek to NYC-Harlem this time (Bill Clinton, holla!!)-to spend some time with the sis and her man (can you say 3rd wheel????) It's really not a pleasure trip although I'll be sneaking in some. I'll be blogging about this special journey on my Phat By 40 blog in the coming weeks. I wish I could just snap my fingers and be there. I hate traveling. I much prefer staycations!